One Might Not Be So Lonely

Well my friends I have quite some news to share. I am officially single. Yes I was single a month ago, but now I'm more singular. I do find one is the lonliest number so far, but hey there are plenty of other 1's out there right? Hehe, I was trying to be funny with some type of math joke and I think I failed.

Anywho, today I am writing about the perks of single-dom. Though I haven't yet experienced them myself, here goes. Cause just because you don't have to involve "WE" when ever you are talking to someone else, doesn't mean you aren't allowed anyless of the fun.

10 THINGS TO DO WHILE SINGLE:

1. You don't have to compromise on movie choices, settling for one you really do not want to see
2. You can eat whatever you want! You worries of garlic breath or binding by allergy regulations
3. You get to dress for you. Wearing your comfy sweater because it's comfy gosh darn it and you don't care if it makes you look 80.
4. You don't have to wait around your house trying to find something to do because someone is 10 minutes late to pick you up
5. Ladies: Make up less! You can come home after a long day and wash away all that rouge and foundation and just relax. Who are you trying to impress at home? You're dog?
6. No longer do you have to pretend you like something just because your significant other likes it. "Oh! Basketball! Yippee!" (Not)
7. You can buy things for yourself nothing worrying if it's silly or impractical
8. You can treat yourself out on the night on the town with the ladies or fellas and not about having to include your now 'ex'pendible other
9. You can do what you love and where to afraid or discouraged to do otherwise
10. No more awkward friend hang outs where you never really felt included

So there are somethings you get to do now you don't have 225 lbs. attacted to your hip (that's just a rough approximation). The things you can do for you and not having to worry about making them happy. Right now, I'm not quite ready to do those things, but in due time I know I will. Cause there are things you will miss from being in a relationship. What I'll miss the most? I'll miss the feeling of butterflies. Whenever I use to see my man, my stomach would do flips. Like if I opened my mouth a butterfly would fly out of me. That's how I think you can test if you are in a good relationship or not. If you feel the butterflies wanting to get out. I was only with him for a year, but everyday and every moment I saw him, I'd get that feeling. So everyone, if you feel butterflies, work to keep them. Don't ever settle for nothing less than butterflies. And when you can't quite feel them clanging around in your insides, maybe it's time to find someone else who puts them back
~ Kat ZappE